A Senior Who Knew Herself
Some seniors arrive like a spark—big laughs, loud stories, camera-ready smiles. And then there are the ones who drift in like a breeze off the lake—easy, quiet, grounded. Alejandra brought a sense of quiet confidence—the kind that doesn’t ask for attention, but holds its own in the stillness. There was something steady and self-assured in the way she moved through the session—like someone who doesn’t need to say much to leave an impression.
Our cap and gown mini session in South Haven, Michigan was the first time we met, and she brought with her a calm, unassuming energy that softened everything around her. No fuss. No performance. Just quiet openness. It’s exactly the kind of presence that reminds me to slow down—not just physically, but mentally.
Because here’s the thing: even as a seasoned photographer, with years of experience and confidence in my art, the nerves still come. Especially with new locations, new clients, and high-stakes moments like graduation portraits. I care deeply about these photos—not just technically, but emotionally. I want them to feel like you, to feel timeless, to hold weight when you look back on them years from now. And that pressure? It can be heavy.
There are days when imposter syndrome creeps in quietly—the kind that doesn’t shout “you’re not good enough” but instead whispers, “are you sure that was the best you could do?” It’s not about lacking skill. It’s about caring so much that your own standards can feel impossible to meet. On this day, I showed up with that inner critic humming in the background. But Alejandra? She reminded me that presence matters more than perfection. She didn’t ask for a big production—just trusted the process, trusted me. And in doing so, she helped me quiet the noise and reconnect with the reason I love this work in the first place.
Honoring the Everyday Moments of a Big Milestone
During our walking between shots, we chatted about her time at South Haven High School—memories with her close group of friends, and playing volleyball, which had clearly been a meaningful part of her high school experience. We touched on future plans, too. She spoke with quiet clarity, and even in just a few words, there was a strong sense of direction and inner strength in how she’s approaching what comes next.
There was something really honest about photographing Alejandra. She didn’t pretend to be anything she’s not. And that, in and of itself, is worth celebrating. She showed up with openness, followed my lead with ease, and trusted me to tell a little piece of her story. That kind of authenticity stays with you.
Class of 2025 and 2026 – Keep It Real
Today, Alejandra walks across the stage at South Haven High School. The day is hers, and it shines just a little brighter because she’s part of it. And I’m grateful I got to document it.
To the seniors of Southwest Michigan—if you’re still thinking about whether a cap and gown session is worth it, let this be your sign. Whether you're in Allegan, Van Buren, Berrien, Kalamazoo, Cass, or St. Joseph County—or further (I see you, Northwest Indiana! I see you, greater Grand Rapids area!)—these sessions aren’t about showing off. They’re about pausing to mark this moment, exactly how you are.
So Long, Class of 2025 - Go be Amazing
Class of 2026—you’re up next. Whether it’s a full senior session or something short and simple like this, let’s make it yours.
Congratulations, Alejandra. You reminded me that strength doesn’t always shout. Sometimes it just moves quietly through the world—soft-spoken, thoughtful, and willing to trust someone else to capture what matters.
